I have never been a believer in making resolutions at the beginning of the year for two reasons. First, I would usually go big with something that sounded absolutely great but realistically unattainable. Second, I felt like I was always setting myself up for disappointment because reaching those big goals without a plan never worked.
Now I choose just one word each year that I would like to be embedded in my life. Something that I can honestly complete and embrace in myself
The word for this year is BECOMING, which also was my word for last year. In fact, it just may be my word for a few more years!
Life is not a destination: it is a journey of constant becoming. Every moment, we are in the process of transforming into who we are meant to be. The word “becoming” is powerful – It speaks to growth, change and the limitless potential within us. It is not about perfection or arriving at an end point, but about embracing the process and evolving into the best version of ourselves
To “become” means to step into a dynamic state of transformation. It acknowledges that life is fluid and that every day brings opportunities for renewal and growth. Whether you are becoming more a more confident professional, a more patient parent, or a more fulfilled individual, the journey itself is the reward. In a world that often prioritizes results, it is important to celebrate the process. Becoming teaches us that who we are today is not who we have to be tomorrow, It allows us to let go of our old stories, shed limiting beliefs, and step into our power.
Transformation is not always comfortable…in my experience it seldom is. The process of becoming often requires us to leave our comfort zones, face our fears, and confront our weaknesses. It might mean unlearning habits, embracing vulnerability, or enduring moments of uncertainty. But these challenges are not barriers – they are steppingstones. Each obstacle is an opportunity to grow stronger, become more resilient, and more aligned with your purpose.
Steps to Becoming:
- Self-Reflection: Take time to understand where you are now and where you want to go. Ask yourself, “Who am I becoming and why does it matter?”
- Set Intentions, not limits: Rather than fixating on rigid goals, set intentions that allow space for growth and adaptation. Focus on the journey, not just on the outcome.
- Embrace Change: Change can be very intimidating, but it is a necessary part of becoming. Accept that growth requires letting go of the old to make space for the new.
- Learn from Setbacks: Challenges and failures are inevitable, but this is how we learn the lessons. We need to see setbacks as part of the change process. Accepting these moments is the opportunity to refine our path.
- Celebrate progress: Every step forward, no matter how small, is worth celebrating. Acknowledge and honor your growth.
The beauty of becoming is that it never truly ends. There is no finish line, no ultimate version of you. Life is about evolving, learning, and stepping into new versions of yourself along the way. As I embrace my journey of becoming this year, I need to remember that it’s okay not to have all the answers. I need to trust the process, stay curious, and remain open to the infinite possibilities ahead.
Because in the end. It’s not about who I will am today and who I’ll be tomorrow. It is about what I am becoming today.
I wish to become a woman of greater faith and trust and make choices that reflect my desire to not be selfish but more giving.
What part of your journey are you currently embracing? We can do this together!
